i'm new to cigars but here's my advice on lighting. I use a torch but i guess it goes with any method.

1. GO SLOW. if you go too fast you'll burn it and make the first while very very bitter.

I start by preheating the foot of the cigar to get it ready. then after it is properly preheated i go in circles around the foot. just take your time with it. after that for the most part you should be good, after a couple draws look at the foot again and see if the stick needs to be touched up (if its not burning evenly).