Wedding Planning Blues

[cinda]

Yeah, I think I will have a ahnd on the parent thing at this point. 3 weeks away and the card thing worked wonders. Looks like I'm on the home stretch.

Great!!!!!!

[The Korean]

Although I regret the embarrassment Cinda's family suffered during her mothers'
"inappropriate" behaviour, there is more than some of you may understand. As your
mother, I too have bitter feelings towards my daughters bio-dad. Fortunately, I was
the one who insisted the girls have their "father" walk them down the aisle. Also lady
enough to walk back down the aisle with the jerk and the grooms' mother (also a
divorcee').

You may not understand, but there are sometimes things that are said and done in
ending a marriage that are unforgettable. These usually result in great pain. Do not
simply try to brush away your mothers' feelings. Until you walk in her shoes, you have
no right to criticize. Everyone is entitled to their own feelings. Grow up, stop being so
selfish as to think that everyone should tip-toe around you and your own precious feelings.
Perhaps if more grown children could experience the same feeling their thoughts on the
subject would be much different. Be understanding. Truly, your parents hope that you
never have to suffer through a divorce.

WOW!!

[Cabaiguan Juan]

A buddy of mine was married Friday night in a vineyard near charlottesville and Heather and I attended it. It was an amazing experience. It sort of put a lot of stuff into perspective. Seeing the level of excitement on my friend and his bride really brought me back to what weddings are all about. The whole event was fantastic, the venue was impecibly put together, the parents of both TJ and (his) Heather were beaming and TJ/Heather were on cloud 9. It made me forget about all of the hassel and disagreements one (specificly me) can have during the planning stages and showed me what the end product can be. In a way, TJ's wedding was almost like like someone sent me one of those cards that i sent last weekend. There wedding helped motivate, focus and remind me on why I'm doing this in the first place. Well, 3 weeks from today and I'll be in TJ's shoes, thank God!

[mrtr33]

My wife and I did the same thing about a month and a half before our wedding. We went to another couple's wedding - and didn't so much enjoy it as take notes, to see if they were doing anything cooler at their wedding, to rip-off or incorporate into our wedding. It worked well, we got a better understanding of timing and flow of events, but it was just funny going to a wedding with a different perspective than we normally would.

[mace85]

I feel your pain man. I am getting married on the 28th of March and we are just a few weeks away. Her parents are divorced. Her dad cheated on her mother for years with the woman who is now his 3rd wife. To make matters more complicated she is a raging alcoholic with so many psych issues she can't be trusted not to talk about her vibrating panties. You think I am kidding... But I am not. Seriously... And of course she has to be there.


If I could go back in time, we would both choose Vegas.

[ashauler]

If I could go back in time, we would both choose Vegas.

You just kinda did go back in time.

[heftysmokes]

You just kinda did go back in time.

Oh, snap!



BTW, Vegas is the way to go!

[mace85]

You just kinda did go back in time.

Point taken...

[CoventryCat86]

I'd never do the big wedding thing.....

[ashauler]

I'd never do the big wedding thing.....

Save the cash for appliances!!

[Cabaiguan Juan]

Our wedding was awseome, but in all seriousness, the money could have been better spent on so many other things. But, unless your footing the bill, its not your to argue about.

Vibrating panties, huh? Wow, the rehersal dinner is going to be one for the books.

[mrtr33]

Some of you guys are talking like the groom has a SAY in the matter.

I had no idea how much went into wedding plans. Call me twitterpated, but I just wanted THROUGH the damn thing with as few casualties as possible. Lucky for us, we didn't have much money at all, but had people volunteer places and services for us.

I second the Vegas spot as well. Preferably in a drive-through church. Preferably with Elvis presiding.

[logan37]

Save the cash for appliances!!

...or a down payment on a house.

[longashes]

This thread caught my eye because I too am now in the middle of the wedding planning fiasco.

Luckily fo me, my inlaws are quite traditional and wealthy, so I pay for nothing.

But what a bewildering series of events a wedding is!! We haven't even picked a venue yet and already my fiance' is losing it.

We must have looked at 100 different places, all of which my opinion was asked, and subsequently ignored. (which is fine because it doesn't matter to me.)

And everyone had something wrong. Too small a dance floor. The grounds look shabby. I don't like the menu.

ARRRRG!!

This is going to be a long year!!!

[mace85]

This thread caught my eye because I too am now in the middle of the wedding planning fiasco.

Luckily fo me, my inlaws are quite traditional and wealthy, so I pay for nothing.

But what a bewildering series of events a wedding is!! We haven't even picked a venue yet and already my fiance' is losing it.

We must have looked at 100 different places, all of which my opinion was asked, and subsequently ignored. (which is fine because it doesn't matter to me.)

And everyone had something wrong. Too small a dance floor. The grounds look shabby. I don't like the menu.

ARRRRG!!

This is going to be a long year!!!

Yeah... But your soon to be inlaws at least seem to like each other. With all the infidelity of her father and the wives/mistresses that want to be involved it is a nightmare. She has been in tears every night about all this fighting.

[longashes]

Yeah... But your soon to be inlaws at least seem to like each other. With all the infidelity of her father and the wives/mistresses that want to be involved it is a nightmare. She has beed in tears every night about all this fighting.

Oh my.

[MarineOne]

This thread caught my eye because I too am now in the middle of the wedding planning fiasco.

Luckily fo me, my inlaws are quite traditional and wealthy, so I pay for nothing.

But what a bewildering series of events a wedding is!! We haven't even picked a venue yet and already my fiance' is losing it.

We must have looked at 100 different places, all of which my opinion was asked, and subsequently ignored. (which is fine because it doesn't matter to me.)

And everyone had something wrong. Too small a dance floor. The grounds look shabby. I don't like the menu.

ARRRRG!!

This is going to be a long year!!!

/Laughs maniacally.


Just wait ..... it gets better (or worse) depending on the "glass is half empty/half full" outlook you have.



Kris

[longashes]

/Laughs maniacally.


Just wait ..... it gets better (or worse) depending on the "glass is half empty/half full" outlook you have.



Kris

It's not me I'm worried about. It's my lady that worries me!!

[MarineOne]

The only time my wife would have me worried is "if" I ever cheated on her. She knows how to shoot all my guns.



Kris

[longashes]

The only time my wife would have me worried is "if" I ever cheated on her. She knows how to shoot all my guns.



Kris

Thank God my lady treats my guns like she does dog turds.