I offer cigars to friends quite often, sometimes people I just met. If someone takes one, it's theirs now, whatever they do with it is their business. If they "save it for later", I usually ask within a day or two how they liked it... If i get the " I haven't smoked it yet" thing, there will be a long time before I repeat the offer. I know only one other friend nearby that even owns a humidor, so I know the un-smoked cigars will become garbage in short order.

Most will ask me immediately if I have my cutter and lighter... stupid question right there!

My neighbor is welcome in my stash whenever he wants, even though we rarely get together to smoke.

Like K7 said, they're just leaves