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    Default Humidors, ministers, kaelarias, and the way some cigar communities work

    Okay, Kaelaria doesn't understand why this community was - and is - so negative to Humidor Minister. Here's why, IMHO.

    First of all, let's look at the product:
    - the exterior work is beautiful;
    - it is not clear how what he makes works as a humidor, as the construction norms do not agree with what is done on all other high-end humidors;
    - he started making humidors a few months ago, so there is no track record; and
    - he has posted (on CP) information that demonstrates that what he has made doesn't work as well as other high-end humidors work.

    Now, none of the above would matter if a hobbyist was making a humidor for himself, or a few buddies, etc. However, this isn't the case at the moment. $800+ gets you a humidor advertised as being "heirloom-quality." That's a high standard, and his humidors don't appear to work like humidors that sell in that price range. Aesthetics is in the eye of the beholder, of course, and I'm not commenting on that. Some folks may have no problem paying for something beautiful that in some ways appears to work no better than an import that costs 1/10th the price.

    So, that's the product side; let's look at the person.
    - he joined boards as soon as he started making humidors, yet says he was smoking for years before that (nine, IIRC). Evidently, there was no reason to join communities beforehand.
    - since joining, he has aggressively marketed his humidors and his expertise, all the time as a hobby.
    - people who gently questioned whether he should be in the vendor section were repeated ignored.
    - only after being bluntly called out by multiple folks did he even entertain being considered a vendor, and even then, it required admin intervention to force him to post as a vendor, and he still didn't appear to understand why.
    - once on the vendor side, he revealed that he was making money. Now, the line between 'hobby' and 'part-time source of income' is legally/morally vague, but we are talking about over $600 income per humidor, net of materials (based on the numbers he posted at CP). Add in the income from ashtrays, and I wouldn't call it a living, or even a good business model, but it is a part-time source of income, IMHO.

    All that happened before he joined here.

    A quick digression about this community. Cigar boards like this one rely on some simple principles. First, when it comes to B/S/T, you don't make a dime - a penny even, off of your fellow BOTL. People who ask for $5 shipping get called on the carpet (the cost is $4.80). If you get a deal on some cigars, you pass on your exact cost or less, not what the market will bear. You don't pass on any auxiliary costs (gas to the post office, packaging, etc.) Essentially, if you are selling cigars and making any profit, then you should not be selling here - unless you are a vendor - and even vendors will get called out if they gouge.

    Another principle is one's participation in the community is exactly that - participation. Giving, not taking. Every couple of months, there will some person coming on here for the sole and/or primary purpose of selling something - often it is <cough> a Canadian selling some Cohiba's that they bought cheap on a beach in Cuba. These people are not treated well - anyone who is suspected of trying to benefit from the community is not treated well.

    Now, as noted above, Humidor Minister was called out rather bluntly over at CP. He then signed up here. The timing is a bit too coincidental, don't you think? His motives were immediately questioned, questioned hard, and, to be blunt, a pile-on ensued. Why? Two reasons: 1. the history was already known; and 2. it appeared that Humidor Minister didn't grasp the principles above, i.e., he doesn't "get it," to use a term often stated on cigar forums such as this one. (www.cigarbbguide.com is a good newbie guide to such terminology, and further explanations about communities like this.)

    Now, I'm sure that Humidor Minister is a fine person. Communications often get misinterpreted when based solely on forum interaction. All of us can only go by what is written. There are other communities - other cigar communities - where he has been, and will be, welcomed. However, the history and what appeared to be his sense of what it meant for him to belong to a community meant that he really didn't belong in this particular community, given the community's standards for integrity. That may change in the future, and that hope has been expressed. People change, communities change. However, personal integrity never changes.

    I hope this helps - maybe it will help more to re-read the threads in question now, making light of the more tobasco parts - because I don't think I'm saying anything new, just saying it differently. This is just MHO. YMMV.
    Last edited by craig; 05-08-2009 at 11:32 AM. Reason: repeated myself, typos, grammar, style, comments incorp'd, etc. + new title
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    Well put... I too questioned such a rude welcoming but it makes a lot more sense now than ever.

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    Good post Craig. I disagree that anyone is expected to lose money when trading/selling.....only not profit. If you paid more than MSRP, on say an OPUSx, you should price it at what you paid, and clearly state that in your sell, but you would not be expected to price it at MSRP.

    ETA: Our standard for honesty and integrity, IMHO, extends to manning up and standing behing what you post. Kaeleria, your post on CP indeed referenced "other boards". A look around at the other cigar boards you are a member of didn't show any real overt controversy with HM that I saw......except this one. Your comment was directed at this board and by default our members. As Basil stated, by posting here, you are condoning behaviour and members that at other places embarrasses you.

    So, which is it:
    Did you make an ill advised statement that you regret? or
    Are you so consumed with your desire to publicize your site that you would post anywhere?
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    Quote Originally Posted by ashauler View Post
    Good post Craig. I disagree that anyone is expected to lose money when trading/selling.....only not profit. If you paid more than MSRP, on say an OPUSx, you should price it at what you paid, and clearly state that in your sell, but you would not be expected to price it at MSRP.
    Yup, yup, I was thinking in terms of boxes, peanuts, gas, tape, etc., - not being forced to an MSRP. Thus, there's always a small loss. I'll re-word that bit to make it clearer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Humidor Minister View Post
    I tried to share my craft here. You started by insulting me. I would have helped anyone that wanted to build their own. I would have got any of you set up with the finest suppliers in the woodworking world. I would have taught anyone that open their mind to it. I would have even made pieces for you to use if you weren't equipped to do it yourself. You think you are so sophisticated, well you're not. You're a very bitter bunch. I'll be removing my pictures and my website. What I had to offer far outweighs what you brought to the table. You haven't hurt my feelings a bit. I just feel sorry for you. I'll go back to smoking a fantastic cigar while doing my craft. Have a nice life.
    In a nutshell - the statement "What I had to offer far outweighs what you brought to the table." puts you in a totally different place in the community. Once you believe that, things will go downhill fast...

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    Ashauler either you are the type of personality that likes to try and bait people, or you seriously have a reading comprehension deficiency. I'm not going through it again because I'm not the type of personality that gets baited, and I don't have patience for the other kind of people. Re-read my sentence and for the last time, I did not direct my comment about a board, or it's members. I commented on other people's behavior (including yours) here and elsewhere. That simply means the individuals have been behaving poorly (IMO) in multiple places. It does NOT mean anything negative about WHERE they were doing it. So in short, the attempt at riling up members here on the false pretense that they have somehow been insulted is a dead-end. The only people that should take offense(and/or be ashamed IMO) are those that made the rude, insulting, personally attacking remarks about the guy on a personal level.

    I understand where you guys are coming from in your respects and feelings for the industry and it's practices. Whether or not anyone breaks your preferred methods I didn't feel some of the hurtful, rude, baiting, etc. remarks made in the various threads were something to be proud of. Whether you think you are 100% right in everything you did (speaking to those that made remarks) bear in mind that other people feel this way.

    One question I do have though is - if this guy was so terrible for whatever reasons, why was he not simply banned by the admin(s)? Does this forum simply run by the group consensus in any way they feel?

    Ashauler, I will be ignoring all your future posts, I have absolutely no interest in having any further conversations with you.

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    Hi kaelaria. I will be your moderator this evening. I see you are still logging in, after saying you were done, so I know you will be reading this. Please, quit spamming my email with complaints. One is enough.

    In case you didn't already realize it, there is not a great deal of overlord meddling here. This is a small forum filled with adults who, as you can see, can take care of themselves. If you do not like it here, please, stick to your guns and be done with this place. Nobody here is going to change for you. To be honest, the report post button is for the regulars around here to notify us of scumbags that need booting, not for noobs to be tattletales about the regulars.

    Have a great night...

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    SHAG!

    Great to see ya!

    I going to start using the "Report" button more often, if that's what it takes to get you back here.
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    mm hmm, kal you woke up Shag. You're lucky you weren't incinerated or something.
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    My old man told me you can always pick out the asshole in the bar as soon as you walk in: loud, obnoxious, one too many Jack and Cokes, tryng to pick a fight with any stranger, barmaid, drinking buddy... And if you think everybody in the place is an asshole looking for a fight, it's time to call it a night, because the asshole is sitting on your barstool.
    Funny how these new guys think everyone else here is the asshole looking for a fight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CoventryCat86 View Post
    SHAG!

    Great to see ya!

    I going to start using the "Report" button more often, if that's what it takes to get you back here.


    I am around, just not much time to be involved like I used to be. Coaching soccer and going to school on top of all the usual adult crap takes up most of my time. Finally growing up, at 41, is exhausting.

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    I like the way this place is run. It keeps the riff-raff to a minimum, and its not like we have enough of that to deal with in our normal everyday offline lives.

    That and I love the tags: asshat, Kuba Kuba Lover, and twats. Classic.




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    Ok, necro-bump, I know....but I couldn't resist adding it here when I saw this somewhere else:
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