Quote Originally Posted by imnotpete View Post
My biggest worry usually with this sort of thing is people will feel obligated to accomodate me even if they don't want me to do something.
Well, that's their own problem then, if they allow something and then resent you for it. All you can do is tell them you'd like to, but won't if they don't want it in the house--and they have the responsibility of answering truthfully.