As a newbie to this post all I could recomend is to think about what she likes to eat and drink . Does she like strong spicy foods or subtle savory food ? Does she like wine coolers , wine , beer or distilled spirits ? Does she have a sweet toothe ? Cigars from the Dominican Republic tend to mild as well as a Candela wrapper . If all else fails , take her with you to the local cigar shop and ask the clerk what they recommend .