I think I quit...

[Brewdude]

Wow. I never thought this thread would go on like this. I have though taken everything you said into account. Shes actually out of the state right now and I already know how Im going to deal with it. Its going to be up to her if she wants to stay together, but I dont know if shes going to want to after she hears what I have to say.

Well dammit, spill it out boy! Don't tease us with that statement unless you aren't prepared to share it here.

I sincerely hope you plan to tell her to take you like you are or forget the whole thing.

Never EVER change for a woman. That's wrong on so many levels. And yes I speak from experience.