the wrong guy....

**heftysmokes** · 03-30-2007, 04:42 PM

No sweat. I'm just hoping all of this can get resolved and this board can get back to being a fun place to meet, share info, bust balls, and all that other good stuff.

**chefchris** · 03-30-2007, 04:45 PM

Originally Posted by heftysmokes

No sweat. I'm just hoping all of this can get resolved and this board can get back to being a fun place to meet, share info, bust balls, and all that other good stuff.

A FRIGGIN MEN

**cinda** · 03-30-2007, 05:04 PM

I saw that video pretty much the first day it was posted and I felt sad for Chris. I knew Chris came to this board with a different tapestry then the monarchy of the group was use too. CC Bpp GG Hex Black Cloud Kevin Basil Shag and Cigar sarge acceptance of a member makes a difference on this board. Someone of BPP caliber to post a video of that nature on the board was shocking in it self but If I were Chris I would of thought I am on my way out. However, we all do not know what goes on in emails and phone chats and I certainly did not know that Chris and Bpp were bubs. If I thought they were bubs then yes I might of thought it was still shocking to post but I would not of felt sad for Chris, I would of felt boys will be boys. You know CC like the old days in the chat room when you loved to do the gay spoof with your friends. It was very funny and I thought it was just hazing, however I still did not know if there was someone in the chat room that was offended. The bottom line for me is Chris handled it extremely well and I think that was the turning point of his over all acceptance within the community he seemed sore public because of it and that made me feel good. When it's all said and done CC and BPP will kiss and make up because they do really like each other, Unfortunately they do not know how to fix all the hurt feelings so they triangulate other people into their hurt like a bad marriage. Get over it. Make the call you need to make so you guys can get back to more important things like naked girls and free cigars!

**heftysmokes** · 03-30-2007, 05:11 PM

Wow, Cinda, well said.

Who said it was bad to have a woman around? Nobody? Good.

**chefchris** · 03-31-2007, 01:32 AM

Originally Posted by cinda

However, we all do not know what goes on in emails and phone chats and I certainly did not know that Chris and Bpp were bubs. :

Good post Cinda. At the time of the video, me and Sid were not "bubs". Me and Sid do talk on the phone, but only since 3 days ago. I actually had a pretty good inclanation that Sid did not like me. I chose to go the way I did because I don't like drama and controversy. I graduated high school already. Because of this, I have gained a great friend. Some people don't get along, it's natural. But it's all in how you handle it. There are people that I don't get along with (believe it or not

) but it's up to you how you handle it. You can avoid the person and just not talk to them. It's that easy. Agree to disagree.

I hate seeing this board go through something like this. It seriously bothers me throughout my day. I don't want Mark to leave, I don't want anyone to leave as long as they behave and treat these people like they are real people. Like I read before, we are on a message board, but this is where we meet up to talk. We are friends beyond the internet. I have gotten an insane amount of help from people here and I hope that I can do the same. It would break my heart to see someone leave. I love this place, as if you can't tell.