TampaCigarGirl

**CoventryCat86** · 02-20-2007, 03:22 AM

Originally Posted by bigpoppapuff

does she owe an apology??.........yes
should she lose her job over this??......absolutely NOT!!!

she's a single mom...ran into some problems.....yeah..go ahead...kick her while she's down....

Where did she ever say that?

Or did she ask you to post that information for her? How would you have knowledge about her AFTER she disappeared from here on January 3rd?

Either way, she took someone's money and never sent the product for which someone paid for and that's pretty serious stuff and the bullshit excuses don't cut it here and wouldn't in a court of law either.

From CigarPass:

Last Seen: 12 Feb 2007

**SideWinder** · 02-20-2007, 07:54 AM

Originally Posted by CoventryCat86

Where did she ever say that?

Or did she ask you to post that information for her? How would you have knowledge about her AFTER she disappeared from here on January 3rd?

Either way, she took someone's money and never sent the product for which someone paid for and that's pretty serious stuff and the bullshit excuses don't cut it here and wouldn't in a court of law either.

From CigarPass:

CC, in the very first post of this thread Drew makes mention of TampaCigarGirl saying "..something about personal issues." I don't detect any hints of collusion in BPP's post. TampaCigarGirl has been a member for a while, perhaps her single parent status came up some other time. I hope everything works out to Drew's satisfaction.

**Shelby07** · 02-20-2007, 05:45 PM

TCG mentioned several times in the chat room that she was a single mom. It is no big secret. She even provided links to photos of her son.

For an unmoderated board there sure do seem to be a lot of opinions as to what can and can't be posted lately.

**kevin7** · 02-20-2007, 06:25 PM

Ha I'll post whatever I deem fit to post. The only person who can say shit to me is HEX. I wear 13 EEEE I dont give a damn whos toes I step on LOL

Shelby when are you gonna post a video of you doing a burnout in that grannymobile you got LOLOLOL

**Shelby07** · 02-20-2007, 06:32 PM

It's in "storage" at the Shelby museum in Boulder for the winter. I'll probably be getting it out around the first week in April.

Burnouts are the least of my problems. I'd like to get a video of the damn thing actually hooking up!

**heftysmokes** · 02-20-2007, 06:33 PM

Originally Posted by kevin7

Ha I'll post whatever I deem fit to post. The only person who can say shit to me is HEX. I wear 13 EEEE I dont give a damn whos toes I step on LOL

Shelby when are you gonna post a video of you doing a burnout in that grannymobile you got LOLOLOL

Grannymobile...oh jeezus, I'm dying over here

**Shelby07** · 02-20-2007, 06:55 PM

Originally Posted by kevin7

Ha I'll post whatever I deem fit to post. The only person who can say shit to me is HEX. I wear 13 EEEE I dont give a damn whos toes I step on LOL

That's why you're my hero!

**CoventryCat86** · 02-22-2007, 04:43 PM

Originally Posted by Shelby07

TCG mentioned several times in the chat room that she was a single mom. It is no big secret. She even provided links to photos of her son.

For an unmoderated board there sure do seem to be a lot of opinions as to what can and can't be posted lately.

Not everyone uses "chat." How would you expect someone (like me) who rarely uses chat to know these things?

She certainlly owes Drew an apology. I really don't give a hoot if she makes a public statement here or not, she's done in my book, I'd never trade with her or be involved in a pass or anything like that with her.

**cigarsarge** · 02-22-2007, 05:30 PM

I agree with Bill...She owes an apology as well as an explaination to Drew. I don't give a crap about if she makes a statment to the board or not. I for one will not accept her back with open arms. She has proved what she is made of.

**Loudpipes78** · 02-22-2007, 05:56 PM

I'm glad everything worked out well.

**mauied1101** · 02-22-2007, 09:45 PM

Glad things finally worked out for you Drew. Sorry that it took so long - and let us know when/if TCG comes to you with an explanation. We don't need to know the contents of the discussion, but if it had or had not been made right.

**Shagaroo** · 02-22-2007, 10:14 PM

Lets not forget she started a contest that she left hanging as well.

http://www.cigarsmokers.com/showthre...2750#post72750

**nhcigarfan** · 02-22-2007, 10:37 PM

Forgot all about that.

**tampacigargirl** · 02-23-2007, 12:29 AM

Since everyone wants a public apology, I apologize. I thought about an explanation, but it only matters to the person that receives it.

**CoventryCat86** · 02-23-2007, 01:31 AM

Originally Posted by tampacigargirl

Since everyone wants a public apology, I apologize. I'm not done. I thought about an explenation, but it only matters to the person that receives it.

No, that's not a true statement at all, not "everyone wants a public apology," I for one never called for that nor did CNB or CgarDan and if you were to go back and look at the thread, you'll find others didn't say that either.

EDIT: Actually only ONE person (Basil) felt that you should give a "public apology" so you oughta brush up on your reading comprehension skills.

Others (once again, not me) felt you should give an EXPLANATION (not explenation) and apparently you don't want to do that either. Hey, your choice but to me your actions speak louder than words at this point.

You may say you're not "done" but my guess is many people here are indeed "done" with you.

Considering the situation here, you're defensive attitude and failure/refusal to own up to YOUR shortcomings aren't doing you any favors. If anything, you're making it worse for yourself.

**Drake** · 02-23-2007, 09:55 AM

Originally Posted by tampacigargirl

Since everyone wants a public apology, I apologize. I thought about an explanation, but it only matters to the person that receives it.

you could have at least tried to seem sincere in your apology.

enjoy those long awaited smokes drew!

**cigar no baka** · 02-23-2007, 01:02 PM

Originally Posted by tampacigargirl

Since everyone wants a public apology, I apologize. I thought about an explanation, but it only matters to the person that receives it.

Well, it appears from Drews post that he finally got what he ordered with a few extras. If he's fine with that, and with your explanation, that's between you and him. But you have damaged your reputation here. I hope you understand that. Reputations are hard to build up and easy to lose.

**Cabaiguan Juan** · 02-23-2007, 02:14 PM

You certainly did a number to your reputation.

Originally Posted by cigar no baka

Well, it appears from Drews post that he finally got what he ordered with a few extras. If he's fine with that, and with your explanation, that's between you and him. But you have damaged your reputation here. I hope you understand that. Reputations are hard to build up and easy to lose.

**Tomahawk202** · 02-23-2007, 02:34 PM

Hey Tampa,
I know that I am a newbie here, but I have been following this since my man drew posted about you guys' "altercation" a while ago. I have to comment.....
You owe everyone an apology. It's only right. But most of all you owe Drew an apology and an explanation. Even if it's only a " Hey, I got sidetracked ( which happens sometimes to everyone ) and haven't had a chance to ship them to you ..."
I have never found the right kind of people I could call friends, until I started smoking cigars. The people who smoke cigars are some of the finest, kindest and whole-heartedly good people in the world. I like to think that we pride ourselves on all the things that society wishes they had, honesty, sincerity, and empathy, truthfullness and understanding. Help us keep this intact, and be a "stand-up" person, apologize, explain and move on......

Tomahawk202

**Shagaroo** · 02-23-2007, 05:56 PM

Originally Posted by tampacigargirl

Since everyone wants a public apology, I apologize. I thought about an explanation, but it only matters to the person that receives it.

We can be a pretty forgiving bunch around here. Especially when a truly unavoidable real life event event makes coming through in a timely fashion difficult. Even, sometimes, when communication sucks. But I think you hit the bottom of the hole you were digging with this. Keep yer damn apology. You're done here.