Jon,

Sorry about the news, the only thing I would do right now is just let the situation cool down a bit. Don't pry, but ask one of your mutual friends if they know anything. I know it's hard, but just stay calm and things will work out.

Keep your chin up.

Rich

Edited to add: Did you leave her at the mall? Not to pry but what did you stretch a little? that might help us help you.