Quote Originally Posted by Daigz View Post
I can bring her up in civil court for all the damages but as far as the threat goes the police can't do anything. At this point though, I feel like I should just walk away with my tail between my legs and say fuck it. What's the point of continuing to deal with her? The way it is right now is that I have no idea where she even is and that's fine with me.

I did bring some smokes with me but smoked them all before I got home. Another shitty part, she's a server/bartender at the local cigar lounge. That means that I can't even go in there and get another cigar.

I don't want this to sound like I just rolled over and took it though. I called up the lounge that she works at and informed them of what she did. I've known the owner for a couple of years. By this weekend she will no longer be employed by that particular establishment AND he's keeping an eye out incase she tries to sell my humidor.
Some things to consider...

Sounds like you should convert that police report into an Order of Protection. She sounds well outside the bounds of reasonable, and it sounds as though she's likely not done.

You can and should pursue damages in the civil court - where the level of proof is far less than in criminal court. And once a judgement has been entered for the damages - you have a myriad of legal options that are far more painful for her than the pain you felt you coming home to the mess.

I'm just sayin'...