Quote Originally Posted by cigar no baka
Hugh, I just wasn't interested in discussing that subject anymore, so why do you construe that as immature refusal? My ego isn't big enough that I take umbrage at someone who disagrees with me on a subject like whether cigars marry flavors or not. I do appreciate your feedback and help. I can have healthy discussions, and have had many. Look at the past six weeks. One argument with CC and suddenly I am the problem???

Again, based on my first experience with you, you were quick to pull the " I am not going to argue" routine. I wasn't arguing with you; I was interested in hearing your opinion and experience.

Based on the experience of other members on this forum, this appears to be the modus operandi for you.

It sure doesn't lead to an interesting exchange of ideas and experiences. In fact, it stifles a discussion and is more likely to cause arguements and flaming.

Maybe CC has had the same experience(s) with you? Maybe there is validation in his "flames" ? Maybe you are not an innocent victim? Maybe starting a thread specifically calling CC out complaining that he is flaming you wasn't the best idea?

Be more willing to engage in an exchange of ideas -you might learn something or teach something to someone else.