newbie seeking for serious advice

[ggiese]

What would you do if you found out that you were in the same predicament that I am in.
I just recenlty joined, and all that i have experienced thus far instead of friendly advice is nothing but to proceed with caution.
Listen, If translating looking for advice is going to become scrutiny and Psycho-analysis, this is not worth it.

I wish I would have seen this post first... Interesting response... Here's my advice (you asked, I'm going to help)

My friend - I happen to care about the membership here. Maybe you do too. Maybe not. I dunno.

The Nigerians have a special word - "mugu". Just to be clear - I'm not a mugu and I'm going to do my level best to ensure that the members of this community are not mugu. If you're truly legit, you'll have no problems with our community. Please proceed with caution.