You’re doing fine, welcome to the board. If you want to use a match go ahead, just let the head completely ignite to before sucking it in to avoid sulfur. My experience is that the more stable your humidity control the less important all the steps of lighting become. Just spark the flame and roll the cigar while your sucking on it and you should be fine.

And don't sweat your choice in cigars, ya you may get some crap for smoking flavored cigars but don't worry about it. Smoke what you like.