Outstanding. I second everything guado said. In my field, I see folks always letting their shit slide. Usually, when a person grows up with it and has had time to make management a part of their life, they continue to do so. But when an adult is diagnosed, they don't feel like it, or it's too much hassle, or they're feeling sorry for themselves, etc. That's great that you have someone who loves you enough to hold you accountable until it's routine. You are a fortunate man.