What a shame. I've done probably a dozen trades/buys with people on various boards and have never had a problem. Most people understand that when you accept a trade or money, you send what is owed (and most people in the cigar community send MORE than what's owed, to my experience).

I agree with previous posters. Hard times are irrelevant. Drew's not asking her to send ehr something from money out of her pocket. He sent her money for cigars. That's the only thing that money should have been used to buy.