Quote Originally Posted by chefchris View Post
I'm not trying to take sides here. From what I'm seeing bigsmoke made a joke that some didn't seem to get. Even after the "just kidding" line. But, hey, that's the internet and you can't here the tone of someone's voice. I didn't see any lecturing other than John's, "it was bad taste". Which later on he apologized and offered to make it up to him. Should have been a done deal right there.
Good, you just agreed with me that he was "lecturing" but you missed the first one:

I hope so, because there is no integrity in that, plus I would not want to do that to anyone, much less someone whom I like and admire.
That statement was totally unnecessary and "lecturing" because bigsmoke had already said BEFORE that post he was "joking."

So bigsmoke sees cabaguan juan's reaction (which like I said, he never should have posted in the first place) and apoligizes which he had no need to do since he had qualified his statement as a joke.

So cabaguan juan continues with the "lecturing" (in my words) with this stupid comment:

Not harmful, just real bad taste.
I didn't like his statements and I took exception to them, it's as simple as that.

So now of course we have shelby chiming with his lies and inuendo trying to make trouble.

Yep, I'm the "problem" here......