Hello - wish to introduce myself

[drew_goring]

Sweet. A box of Short Stories for 170 bucks.

slk, if you're here for the circlejerk, it ain't happening.

[597]

Popcorn anyone?

[Shelby07]

Slkr - you need to back off. This board has a different culture and what Basil said is perfectly acceptable here. What the first poster did, while maybe being ok on some boards, is not acceptable here. If Basil didn't point it out then somebody else would have. Like it or not, there is very little tolerance for those in the business, who come on here and try to use this forum as their own personal billboard.

You can't come here and jump in with both feet. It doesn't work that way. You've got 39 posts and you've already been involved in 2 altercations here. You need to figure out what this community is about before you come in swingin'.

You don't seem to like the fact that Basil jumped all over this guy, but you aren't at all reluctant to jump all over him. You seem to have some suggestions for how he should have handled his reply. Perhaps you should have taken your own advice and laid off the insults in yours. Here's what I mean - It's as clear as can be...

First you say...

Don't pay attention to the negative post by Basil or I am sure the ones to follow my greeting. It's like peoples kids that scream in the grocery store, their just looking for some kind of attention they don't get at home.

Then you say...

Ah, I see someone didn't get a thesaurus for christmas. No need to slam a guy on his first post. If you think he did something wrong, why not a PM and try to help the BOTL? At any rate have a great New Year.

And yet again you say...

Thought the idea was to help each other out, not to unleash our angst because our moms didn't hug us enough as kids. Just wanted the guy to know that not everyone that enjoys cigars is like you. Kudos though on the language on this post. Good job.

Sounds like maybe somebody else didn't get enough hugs from their mom.

And then, of course, there is this...

If by "Core Group of Guys" you mean belligerent to anyone new that posts here, than yes you are correct sarge. Uh-oh, I am an asshat for thinking maybe you should PM the guy and let him know there was a better way to do his introduction? Really it is not that hard, give the guy a chance to correct the problem before fragging him. Mentoring is all about tact.

Seems to me that what you say and how you act in this thread are huge contradictions. Pick one and stick to it.

You need to make up your mind... do you want people to be kind and helpful or do you want to come on this board and bitch to the regulars because they bitch too much? It's starting to sound like you want them to act the way you tell them to yet reserve the freedom to act as you like.

The people here are good folks and the board is a good one. You can fight with them (you will not win.. the culture is already established here) try to fit in, back off or just decide this ain't the place for you.

And yes, I do post on another board that you frequent, But just as I do there, I also respect the culture and the people here.

Of course, what you do is up to you. I'm just tryin' to help...

[slkr4life]

Slkr - you need to back off. This board has a different culture and what Basil said is perfectly acceptable here. What the first poster did, while maybe being ok on some boards, is not acceptable here. If Basil didn't point it out then somebody else would have. Like it or not, there is very little tolerance for those in the business, who come on here and try to use this forum as their own personal billboard.

You can't come here and jump in with both feet. It doesn't work that way. You've got 39 posts and you've already been involved in 2 altercations here. You need to figure out what this community is about before you come in swingin'.

You don't seem to like the fact that Basil jumped all over this guy, but you aren't at all reluctant to jump all over him. You seem to have some suggestions for how he should have handled his reply. Perhaps you should have taken your own advice and laid off the insults in yours. Here's what I mean - It's as clear as can be...

First you say...



Then you say...



And yet again you say...



Sounds like maybe somebody else didn't get enough hugs from their mom.

And then, of course, there is this...



Seems to me that what you say and how you act in this thread are huge contradictions. Pick one and stick to it.

You need to make up your mind... do you want people to be kind and helpful or do you want to come on this board and bitch to the regulars because they bitch too much? It's starting to sound like you want them to act the way you tell them to yet reserve the freedom to act as you like.

The people here are good folks and the board is a good one. You can fight with them (you will not win.. the culture is already established here) try to fit in, back off or just decide this ain't the place for you.

And yes, I do post on another board that you frequent, But just as I do there, I also respect the culture and the people here.

Of course, what you do is up to you. I'm just tryin' to help...

Don't think there really is a need to back off. If you don't like a guy putting his business in his post then why not say " this isn't appreciated on this board or tolerated". There that was not to hard was it?

Yes I do have insults in my replies to Basil because that seems to be the only thing he understands. So if you think someone should be a lackey and not pick on him because he is a big "core member" than I would respectfully disagree. A person has to have basic standards of respect to people, not different sets dependant on which site they are on.

[Shelby07]

Don't think there really is a need to back off. If you don't like a guy putting his business in his post then why not say " this isn't appreciated on this board or tolerated". There that was not to hard was it?

Yes I do have insults in my replies to Basil because that seems to be the only thing he understands. So if you think someone should be a lackey and not pick on him because he is a big "core member" than I would respectfully disagree. A person has to have basic standards of respect to people, not different sets dependant on which site they are on.

Hey, don't get upset. I'm just trying to tactfully mentor you. (hmmm... maybe it doesn't always work, eh?)

I'm curious how you know so much about Basil already.

And, btw, if you knew anything about my history on this board, you would know that what you said here about not calling out a "core member" is probably the stupidest thing you've put out here so far. At least when I did it, right or wrong, I had a personal history to look at.

You just showed me how much you know about me, Basil, and everyone else here. I don't think you're gonna like this place. And I think this place is not gonna like you too much.

Now, rant on. I'm done.

[ggiese]

I hate to do this... Big Clue, sucker4life - are you at all familiar with the writings of Sun Tzu?

[Shelby07]

I'm kinda curious... what happend to kiokicigars?

[cigarsarge]

Got to head out to work guys...Pull the roast off the grill when the internal temp is about 550 degrees.

[Shelby07]

Got to head out to work guys...Pull the roast off the grill when the internal temp is about 550 degrees.

Be safe, Sarge!

[slkr4life]

Hey, don't get upset. I'm just trying to tactfully mentor you. (hmmm... maybe it doesn't always work, eh?)

I'm curious how you know so much about Basil already.

And, btw, if you knew anything about my history on this board, you would know that what you said here about not calling out a "core member" is probably the stupidest thing you've put out here so far. At least when I did it, right or wrong, I had a personal history to look at.

You just showed me how much you know about me, Basil, and everyone else here. I don't think you're gonna like this place. And I think this place is not gonna like you too much.

Now, rant on. I'm done.

Thank you. Have a great New Year. Maybe a PM would have worked a little better.

[basil]

Don't think there really is a need to back off. If you don't like a guy putting his business in his post then why not say " this isn't appreciated on this board or tolerated". There that was not to hard was it?

Sorry chump, you don't get to define board etiquette here. And, your sarcasm makes it difficult to take you seriously. This is some of the "talking out of both sides of your mouth" that Shelby mentioned earlier. He was being pretty generous - I'll just call you what you are: dishonest, or, a liar.

Yes I do have insults in my replies to Basil because that seems to be the only thing he understands. So if you think someone should be a lackey.

I think you should look this word up, you condescending piece of shit liar. Mothfucker, nobody is asking you to be a toady, just shut down your overfuckingblown ego and shut the fuck up.

and not pick on him because he is a big "core member" than I would respectfully disagree. .

Oh wow, here you are genuflecting and being a lackey and shit. You wouldn't know respect if you tripped over it, plastic soldier.

A person has to have basic standards of respect to people, not different sets dependant on which site they are on.

Whose standards, forum police . . . yours?

Don't care if it is a politically correct board, just that people use a little intelligence before typing. The guy has never gouged me, has he gouged you? .

Fucking please. You did not just type this, did you?

Again, I could care less

The term is, "I couldn't care less", genius. Fucking save me.

There is no seeking and destroying. Seniority is no excuse to be immediately ignorant to anyone or acceptable because that is just the way it is here. So you can warn me, threaten me, or (gasp) call me names but I will never tolerate blatant disrespect to anyone.

Whoa! There goes that ego again. What a fucking tool.

Oh yeah, First twelve years was Airborne. How bout you?

Now we get down to who you think you are: Someone who thinks that what he does for a living gives him license to define others' reality. Wow. All you are is a plastic, cynical little nothing bitch who has made the mistake of thinking what he says here might really matter to anyone.

Thank you. Have a great New Year. Maybe a PM would have worked a little better.

A thank you and then criticism. Contradictory?

Here's the deal asshole: you owe everyone here an apology. You should do just that and then shut the fuck up for awhile and just maybe you might get it. This advice makes me your best fucking friend, so take it, or keep doing what you're doing and you can later wonder how the fuck you got buried like the pathetic victim you are.