Divorce

[cinda]

Nice thing about a clean break, uncontested divorce, is if she grovels, pleads and proves herself over time you could always date her again if you choose.

But then again, after you get the paperwork taken care of the and divorce is finalized, you can hit the gym for a few months, build up the confidence, feel good about yourself and then take the new, smoking hot - piece of ass - does it all with a smile girl, out to eat at your ex's workplace.

Because, you still want to be friends, right.

This is the best! but I am still reading ......oh and I will add here I would have kept the life insurance on her especially if your paying a minimal amount. How can you lose?

[Loudpipes78]

This is the best! but I am still reading ......oh and I will add here I would have kept the life insurance on her especially if your paying a minimal amount. How can you lose?

I pondered keeping the life insurance policy on her but if she thought about it and changed the beneficiary without me knowing it would be pointless.

January 23rd will most likely be our only court date and that will be that. The current over under line on how long it will take is 15 minutes.

I know CT is different b/c I have a co-worker going through a divorce up there and she can't believe my marriage is going to be over before hers and they've been working on the divorce for almost 5 months.

Trying to make the best out of the cards I've been dealt and go from there.

[CoventryCat86]

I pondered keeping the life insurance policy on her but if she thought about it and changed the beneficiary without me knowing it would be pointless.

January 23rd will most likely be our only court date and that will be that. The current over under line on how long it will take is 15 minutes.

I know CT is different b/c I have a co-worker going through a divorce up there and she can't believe my marriage is going to be over before hers and they've been working on the divorce for almost 5 months.

Trying to make the best out of the cards I've been dealt and go from there.

Yep, I shoulda known our f*cked up state is worse than Florida. I suppose I can see the logic behind the "waiting period" but I really wonder what the statistics are on that, meaning that what percentage of the divorces actually were called off due to a "cooling off" period. My guess is it would be around 5% meaning that why bother?

[cinda]

Yep, I should known our f*cked up state is worse than Florida. I suppose I can see the logic behind the "waiting period" but I really wonder what the statistics are on that, meaning that what percentage of the divorces actually were called off due to a "cooling off" period. My guess is it would be around 5% meaning that why bother?

What the cooling off period really does is gives people a chance to remember all the reason why they want the divorce. All the reason why their the injured party and enough time to form a camp, get a lawyer and begin the war. A year later find themselves in the middle of a trial because one or both parties doesn't feel that rotating the child among the holidays every other year is fair. End result kids are rotated between mom and dad and the lawyers fee's just for the trial would put the child though the first year of a really nice college. Bottom line you drive the bus during the divorce and you have a choice to drive it right off a cliff if you choose. You can decide to put your kids though college or your lawyers children though college. Some times the last word is not about getting the china it is about getting out of the judicial system with your self respect and your bank account. Lastly and most importantly for all who have children it is getting though a divorce with your children's mental health in tact. Adult problems should never be children's problems.

[Cabaiguan Juan]

January 23rd will most likely be our only court date and that will be that. The current over under line on how long it will take is 15 minutes.

I pick over, but not by much. I'm guessing 25 minutes and its done.

[nhcigarfan]

The current over under line on how long it will take is 15 minutes.

If this includes waiting for your case to be called, then I take the over. If this is just from when the clerk calls your case until the Judge says your done. I'll take the under.

[BunkyX]

LP
Take from a man who has been through it four times, It gets better. I have a philosphy about the hard shit we go through and it simply is - This too shall pass. I feel for you man, it is never easy to lose the one you have loved for so many years. Take it from a pro, do what you got to do, walk away and do not look back. Do not waste time thinking about what could have been, instead concentrate on what will be. Good luck bro'

[Cabaiguan Juan]

What the cooling off period really does is gives people a chance to remember all the reason why they want the divorce. All the reason why their the injured party and enough time to form a camp, get a lawyer and begin the war. A year later find themselves in the middle of a trial because one or both parties doesn't feel that rotating the child among the holidays every other year is fair. End result kids are rotated between mom and dad and the lawyers fee's just for the trial would put the child though the first year of a really nice college. Bottom line you drive the bus during the divorce and you have a choice to drive it right off a cliff if you choose. You can decide to put your kids though college or your lawyers children though college. Some times the last word is not about getting the china it is about getting out of the judicial system with your self respect and your bank account. Lastly and most importantly for all who have children it is getting though a divorce with your children's mental health in tact. Adult problems should never be children's problems.

-Amen to that sistah, .

If this includes waiting for your case to be called, then I take the over. If this is just from when the clerk calls your case until the Judge says your done. I'll take the under.

-to clairify, i taking over from when he gets called from the clerk.

[Loudpipes78]

I'm counting from the time I get called to the time the hammer drops.



I'm starting to learn to play golf and my best friend told me he's taking me to court that day but said we should get a game in before we go. I agreed and said how great would it be to walk into the court room with my golf bag.


Sir, is there some place you'd rather be? Isn't this important to you?


Yeah, I'd rather be back on the course. No it's not really important to me, my marriage ended back in December when she told me she was in love with another man, I gave her a chance to come back home, and she ended up deciding it was him not me, and hadn't loved me in years. I pretty much moved on after that day.

No way would I do it but definitely made us laugh.

[Cabaiguan Juan]

Well, again, good luck, hope it goes fast. Golf is a ton of fun, and very adicitive. I've been playng for less then a year and my whole Xmas list was cigars related, oops, i ment golf related. just exchanged gifts with the folks before they went on vacation and i just got a new golf bag! You'll find something new to curse now that you've picked up golf.

I'm counting from the time I get called to the time the hammer drops.



I'm starting to learn to play golf and my best friend told me he's taking me to court that day but said we should get a game in before we go. I agreed and said how great would it be to walk into the court room with my golf bag.


Sir, is there some place you'd rather be? Isn't this important to you?


Yeah, I'd rather be back on the course. No it's not really important to me, my marriage ended back in December when she told me she was in love with another man, I gave her a chance to come back home, and she ended up deciding it was him not me, and hadn't loved me in years. I pretty much moved on after that day.

No way would I do it but definitely made us laugh.

[SmokinDVM]

Well, again, good luck, hope it goes fast. Golf is a ton of fun, and very adicitive. I've been playng for less then a year and my whole Xmas list was cigars related, oops, i ment golf related. just exchanged gifts with the folks before they went on vacation and i just got a new golf bag! You'll find something new to curse now that you've picked up golf.

That's for sure, but at least you won't ever catch your golf bag in bed with another guy!