Don't worry too much about lighting the cigar - as debo said, go slowly. Toast the foot of the cigar evenly before you light then be sure the edge is lit all around before you actually light the cigar.

Be more concerned about cutting the cap. Most new guys just pick a spot and cut away. If you cut too much off the cigar will unravel. Look for the first seam in the cap (closest to the tip) and just take enough off to remove the cap.

There are some good threads in this forum about cutting the cap and lighting the cigar. Don't be afraid to ask the guys at the B&M for tips on cutting and lighting.

Welcome.