A buddy of mine was married Friday night in a vineyard near charlottesville and Heather and I attended it. It was an amazing experience. It sort of put a lot of stuff into perspective. Seeing the level of excitement on my friend and his bride really brought me back to what weddings are all about. The whole event was fantastic, the venue was impecibly put together, the parents of both TJ and (his) Heather were beaming and TJ/Heather were on cloud 9. It made me forget about all of the hassel and disagreements one (specificly me) can have during the planning stages and showed me what the end product can be. In a way, TJ's wedding was almost like like someone sent me one of those cards that i sent last weekend. There wedding helped motivate, focus and remind me on why I'm doing this in the first place. Well, 3 weeks from today and I'll be in TJ's shoes, thank God!