
Originally Posted by
Diesel Grinch
You really don't get it do you. You where wrong and it doesn't matter what your reasons where. On every step of the trade you messed up. You never agree to trade unless you have the sticks in hand. You always keep in contact. You keep checking with the person until they say they got their part and everything is fine. You don't wait to recieve your part unless that was agree upon at the beginning. When a time frame isn't stated it is implied that you send asp. 1 or 2 days at most.
The reason I am knocking you down is two fold. First because you deserve it for screwwing up so bad. In the online comunity you have only one chance to get it right. Issues do come up in trades but if you handle things right everyone is happy. You didn't. Second this lets others know what is acceptable. They also find out what will happen.
When you messed up you should have said you where sorry and made it right. Don't give any excuses because they don't matter now. Don't try to defend yourself because you cann't. You where wrong. Take the beatings. Most here will not deal with you and this will haunt you a very long time. Any time you try to get in Box splits, passes, cigar drafts, or trade people will let others know of your screw up. In time after a lot of hard work it might be let go, but never forgotten.
Sending with out the $0.45 DC number was another screw up. Insurance is worthless with cigars as sending tobacco with out a tobacco license is a no no. The PO will give you a hard time to replace it. Not knowing isn't an excuse.
If you ever want to be accepted back then take the beatings and STFU about it. Sending PM's and defending yourself just digs your hole deeper.
DG
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