My wife loves to smoke with me too.. These are her favorites:

CAO Flavors - Eileen's Dream / Karma Sutra / Moontrance. Get the smaller ones in the tubes - for some reason momma's not a big fan of the Robusto sizes...

Drew Estates Java (I even like smoking these with a Pepsi!). Get the Robusto size, not the "waif" (too friggen thin).

Acid Blondie's (they smell very nice - but I'm not a big fan of how they taste - momma likes 'em though).

Kahlua's - again the smaller or Robusto sizes are the best...