This Sucks

[Shagaroo]

during which time she will be breathing down my neck, and causing unnecessary pressure while I try to finish school.

Allow me to be the asshole SOB for a minute.

Dude, WTF? You'd marry a girl who would ride your ass for a ring regardless of the fact it would put you in serious financial difficulties at the end of your college career? I think you are thinking with the wrong head. Wake up.

I think SuperChuck should be quoted again here...

Don't put yourself into debt. If she applies pressure to get a ring, think about whether she's interested in you or in the ring. For many women, "Mr. Right" is secondary to "getting married".

You're supposed to ask her to marry you, you're not supposed to feel like you're supposed to propose.

[WhiteWidow]

Allow me to be the asshole SOB for a minute.

Dude, WTF? You'd marry a girl who would ride your ass for a ring regardless of the fact it would put you in serious financial difficulties at the end of your college career? I think you are thinking with the wrong head. Wake up.

I think SuperChuck should be quoted again here...

Well, she's also kind of pissed because while I was on my internship last semester, and making really good money, I told her I was saving up but instead blew all my money on cigars and video games.

[Shagaroo]

instead blew all my money on cigars and video games.

And remind her you could have blown it on crack and $2 hookers! She should be thankful all you gave her was mild aggrivation, not something a shot couldn't clear up.

Damn women, never see the silver lining in any damn thing!

[SuperChuck]

Well, she's also kind of pissed because while I was on my internship last semester, and making really good money, I told her I was saving up but instead blew all my money on cigars and video games.

I'd like to take this opportunity to gloat (again):

I don't care what you do with your money, it's your money

[prophetic_joe]

Well, she's also kind of pissed because while I was on my internship last semester, and making really good money, I told her I was saving up but instead blew all my money on cigars and video games.

Here's the deal man, I just got married in october and my wife never road my ass about getting married once, she knew when we could afford it it would happen. I understand the girl being mad at you because you told her you were going to buy her a nice ring and instead bought cigars and video games but when it comes down to it it is your money so the hell with it. If buying her a ring now would put a serious financial strain on you I say hold off, and you damn sure aren't going to be able to relax once you do propose, forget about getting time for school or time finding a better job. Now you enter into marriage in debt and in financial trouble and are really fucked.

My suggestion tell your girl you will buy her a ring but whatever you spend on her ring she has to match and buy you cigars and shit. Maybe that will get her to stop pestering you for awhile.