After Lurking for a couple of days it's time I said hello.

[Monk]

I must ask, what is a HERF?

a herf is when you get together with friends and smoke it up

just a social time you can spend with a few cigar buddies, or more than a few, it doesn't matter

As boomshay says. Usually you bring a stack of some sticks for people to take a few that they like and you take a few that you like from other people's stacks they have brought along. You smoke like crazy (I smoked 5 my first Herf with Bluesman and BigPoppaPuff and some others. Combined with the copious amounts of Rye and cokes I was DONE at the end of the night ), shoot the shit, drink, usually eat something and all round enjoy all that is good with life.

-W.