the wrong guy....

[CoventryCat86]

Ummmm, okay, how is Sid's PSA harming anyone or anything?

And, I didn't have a problem with you or Sid posting news stories...I was simply relaying that in my view, your topping sid's post however many times is as immature and childish as Shelby following you around saying "What a NICE GUY".

And don't fucking tell me I need to get a clue. I can read all these posts just as well as the next guy.

You do indeed need to "get a clue" if you hadn't left chat the minute I walked in, I would have told you all about sid's DWI BS.

No need for the f-word either hefty.....

[cinda]

When CC and BPP were best buds this stuff never happend....hummmmm as a matter of fact

[Shelby07]

What a NICE GUY!

Your "maturity" is coming through loud and clear....

Do you REALLY think you're helping your cause by behaving like this?

Good point - You really ought to give your own comments some thought.

GO CAPE BRETON SCREAMING EAGLES

[Shelby07]

When CC and BPP were best buds this stuff never happend....hummmmm as a matter of fact

Sure it did, Cinda. This stuff has been going on since before I got here, just with different people.

[heftysmokes]

You do indeed need to "get a clue" if you hadn't left chat the minute I walked in, I would have told you all about sid's DWI BS.

No need for the f-word either hefty.....

I was leaving chat and had said so to chris before you walked in. That, although maybe unfortunate, was a coincidence.

However, how was I supposed to "get a clue?" Was I supposed to magically have some information about a DWI? Or Star Wars? I just thought it was another retarded youtube post from Sid: harmless, but stupid.

So if you want to fill me in on how a stupid PSA from 1980 or whenever is not just a harmless post, why don't you. Until then, stop telling me I need to get a clue when I'm in the dark about any underlying themes.

And when I feel someone is talking down to me, I have a tendency to get defensive about it, and the f-word might fly.

[CoventryCat86]

I was leaving chat and had said so to chris before you walked in. That, although maybe unfortunate, was a coincidence.

However, how was I supposed to "get a clue?" Was I supposed to magically have some information about a DWI? Or Star Wars? I just thought it was another retarded youtube post from Sid: harmless, but stupid.

So if you want to fill me in on how a stupid PSA from 1980 or whenever is not just a harmless post, why don't you. Until then, stop telling me I need to get a clue when I'm in the dark about any underlying themes.

And when I feel someone is talking down to me, I have a tendency to get defensive about it, and the f-word might fly.

LOL. I sent you a PM with an explanation. I'm sorry hefty, it was something that isn't as clear to others as it is to me, my error completely. Once again, I'm sorry.

[heftysmokes]

No sweat. I'm just hoping all of this can get resolved and this board can get back to being a fun place to meet, share info, bust balls, and all that other good stuff.

[chefchris]

No sweat. I'm just hoping all of this can get resolved and this board can get back to being a fun place to meet, share info, bust balls, and all that other good stuff.

A FRIGGIN MEN

[cinda]

I saw that video pretty much the first day it was posted and I felt sad for Chris. I knew Chris came to this board with a different tapestry then the monarchy of the group was use too. CC Bpp GG Hex Black Cloud Kevin Basil Shag and Cigar sarge acceptance of a member makes a difference on this board. Someone of BPP caliber to post a video of that nature on the board was shocking in it self but If I were Chris I would of thought I am on my way out. However, we all do not know what goes on in emails and phone chats and I certainly did not know that Chris and Bpp were bubs. If I thought they were bubs then yes I might of thought it was still shocking to post but I would not of felt sad for Chris, I would of felt boys will be boys. You know CC like the old days in the chat room when you loved to do the gay spoof with your friends. It was very funny and I thought it was just hazing, however I still did not know if there was someone in the chat room that was offended. The bottom line for me is Chris handled it extremely well and I think that was the turning point of his over all acceptance within the community he seemed sore public because of it and that made me feel good. When it's all said and done CC and BPP will kiss and make up because they do really like each other, Unfortunately they do not know how to fix all the hurt feelings so they triangulate other people into their hurt like a bad marriage. Get over it. Make the call you need to make so you guys can get back to more important things like naked girls and free cigars!

[heftysmokes]

Wow, Cinda, well said.

Who said it was bad to have a woman around? Nobody? Good.

[chefchris]

However, we all do not know what goes on in emails and phone chats and I certainly did not know that Chris and Bpp were bubs. :

Good post Cinda. At the time of the video, me and Sid were not "bubs". Me and Sid do talk on the phone, but only since 3 days ago. I actually had a pretty good inclanation that Sid did not like me. I chose to go the way I did because I don't like drama and controversy. I graduated high school already. Because of this, I have gained a great friend. Some people don't get along, it's natural. But it's all in how you handle it. There are people that I don't get along with (believe it or not ) but it's up to you how you handle it. You can avoid the person and just not talk to them. It's that easy. Agree to disagree.

I hate seeing this board go through something like this. It seriously bothers me throughout my day. I don't want Mark to leave, I don't want anyone to leave as long as they behave and treat these people like they are real people. Like I read before, we are on a message board, but this is where we meet up to talk. We are friends beyond the internet. I have gotten an insane amount of help from people here and I hope that I can do the same. It would break my heart to see someone leave. I love this place, as if you can't tell.