I'll tell you how I've been lighting mine. First off, do not cut the cigar first. I grab about 3 matches and begin toasting the foot with the first match while holding it just above the flame. The idea is to light the cigar without having to draw on it. It usually takes me 3-4 matches. When you start seeing the white ash starting to build, then you know it's lit. Then you cut the cap and enjoy a nicely lit cigar without the harsh taste that you sometimes get when you first light a stick. Works great.