Wife is really griping about smoking.

[chefchris]

But the best advice I can give, seeing as Im not married, is to communicate. Communication is the basis of all relationships. If there is no communication, it is not a healthy relationship.
Ask her why she is complaining more and why she dislikes it to begin with. Then tell her why you enjoy it so much. Everything begins from here.

Careful there, we don't know what we're talking about since we've never been in a committed relationship.