Best if luck to you in your endeavor. Marriage is a constantly evolving relationship that requires constant care and attention, but even with that it can blow up in your face.

I know that with my wife, we've gone through hellish times and wonderful times and everything inbetween. But all in all, she is my partner, and we've learned we can live with each others bullshit without throttling one another in our sleep, so its a good marriage. And we do enjoy each others company most of the time. But vacations can be trying - a little absence is a good thing!