A discussion on perceptions

[illilli]

Thought I might make an observation. Just so as not to offend anyone, I will apologize first in case I step on any toes. Ok, I had noticed that there was a person floating around here under a few names but was actually the same guy. I had read some of his\her posts, and didn't see anything posted that was derogatory. The person wasn't trying to sell anything, and did a legitimate trade with a regular on the board.

Wouldn't it have been better if this person had been constructively criticized and temp banned or some other such punishment rather than a simple heave ho? It didn't seem like he meant anything but to have a bit of harmless fun.

That said, thank for the welcome, and I'll sit back and learn for a while.

bhbc

You are only allowed to have one login. That's the rule Mark, if that's your name. I'm not fooled by your posted age either; I know you are only 19 from Southern California. Why not be straight with us and let us guide you to really fitting in here?

[bigpoppapuff]

whothefuggizzmark??.....and what am i missing here??...

[Shelby07]

All good comments and, hopefully a good start to a productive discussion. GG, don't worry about insulting me or offending me. I think I'm past that as I understand a little more where most are coming from. Besides, I asked for this discussion knowing full well that I'm the new kid on the block and I would probably hear some harsh words. If I did that before I was ready then I guess I'll just have to accept what I get. You were right to point out that I don't have a good feel for the board or the people on it yet. Besides, I've heard from a few others that you are a pretty good guy. However, I have jumped into the fray and, hopefully, I can win some credibility by putting in some effort to help make things better.

I will say that I have been on a few other boards having to do with the new GT500 and aviation, and I have used newsgroups for many years before that. Apparantly they are a bit milder than cigar boards.

illilli - I'm not sure if your post was directed at me, I know there are several people named Mark, but just to clarify. Are you thinking that I have more than one login, that I am not 56 years old and I'm not who I say I am? Or was that directed at someone else?

[ggiese]

All good comments and, hopefully a good start to a productive discussion. GG, don't worry about insulting me or offending me. I think I'm past that as I understand a little more where most are coming from. Besides, I asked for this discussion knowing full well that I'm the new kid on the block and I would probably hear some harsh words. If I did that before I was ready then I guess I'll just have to accept what I get. You were right to point out that I don't have a good feel for the board or the people on it yet. Besides, I've heard from a few others that you are a pretty good guy. However, I have jumped into the fray and, hopefully, I can win some credibility by putting in some effort to help make things better.

I will say that I have been on a few other boards having to do with the new GT500 and aviation, and I have used newsgroups for many years before that. Apparantly they are a bit milder than cigar boards.

illilli - I'm not sure if your post was directed at me, I know there are several people named Mark, but just to clarify. Are you thinking that I have more than one login, that I am not 56 years old and I'm not who I say I am? Or was that directed at someone else?

You'll be fine, Shelby. Stick around - get to know the crew - it will all eventually make sense... And I'm sure you'll be glad you did - especially if you like cigars. This is one of the most generous, sincere, caring groups of individuals I've dealt with. You've stumbled into a great group...

And nope - illilli is not talking about you. He's talking about BigHardBrownCigar.

[illilli]

illilli - I'm not sure if your post was directed at me, I know there are several people named Mark, but just to clarify. Are you thinking that I have more than one login, that I am not 56 years old and I'm not who I say I am? Or was that directed at someone else?[/SIZE]

No, Shelby, I was not talking to you, sorry. I like you Shelby and I'm glad you are hangin out with us.

[Monk]

Well guys, as a Newbie myself I think I covered some of this discussion in a few of my threads so I am happy to see this thread seperate and people being constructive. Shelby, glad to have you stay (and hopefully you to BPP). Us yunguns need some "elderly" guidance as cigarsarge pointed out.

-Will

[Bighardbrowncigar]

Hello.

I just wanted to say thanks to all those who responded to my post. I think we are all entitled to an honest opinion in life, and let's just keep things fair and balanced, to borrow the Fox News line. Anyhow, I'll sit back now, keep my eyes and ears open and hopefully learn a thing or two about the cigar lifestyle.

[bigpoppapuff]

let me "axe" you a question,brown.....have you been here before??......i'm thinking...yes...