Quote Originally Posted by bigpoppapuff View Post
if you're not drinking in excess...and enjoy a cigar by yourself...why quit??......let's just say it doesn't work out with her....what would you do then??......if you want to sell your cigars...make an offer....i'd keep smoking....it's not like it's a crime....think about what you're going to do..."she doesn't like your smoking and drinking".....who died and made her the queen...man up,son...


if she wants you...she wants you the way she met you...does she think you're putty??...
Quote Originally Posted by dpenix76 View Post
If she really loves you,she wont care if you smoke.If she tries to change you,trust me,you better kick her to the curb.I had been married for 8 yrs when I began to smoke cigars.My wife never bitched a lick.Be yourself,dont try to act different to please her.You'll be better in the long run for it.
Quote Originally Posted by BunkyX View Post
What man doesn't need a little time to himself every now and then? Keep the smokes! Buy yourself a good bottle of hooch and store them in a safe place. Then when the time comes and you have an hour or so to yourself enjoy all three ( time alone, cigar, and drink). If this lady turns out to be serious those may be the only three things you will have left to cherish. I think most of us married men will agree on this.

What these three said! I think anything else I have to say would just be repitive.

I was NOT a big smoker when I started dating my wife or a big drinker either... over the last 6 years I've changed my habits and so has she. The one thing that hasn't changed is as long as I'm happy she supports it as long as it's not something crazy or self destructive and even then on rare occassion she's turned a blind eye.