We did it!

[CoventryCat86]

The only thing that matters is what makes you guys the happiest. Smoke a good one in celebration brother. I'll be sure to whip out a doggie rocket for ya tonight.

Scotty, once again you make me want to

I don't see the cause for celebration, I see a whole lot more hurt in this guy's near future. She talked him into a divorce because she wants OUT. He may seem happy this afternoon but that'll last for what, maybe a couple of days? She wants OUT, period and that is sad for the both of them, I hate "quitters" like 8-5-8's wife is . A divorce is not a way to "save" a "relationship." It's going to be painful and it will take you about a year (on average) to get over it. Maybe you'll get lucky and she'll beg for you to "take her back" but the chances of that are highly unlikely.

[ggiese]

Scotty, once again you make me want to

I don't see the cause for celebration, I see a whole lot more hurt in this guy's near future. She talked him into a divorce because she wants OUT. He may seem happy this afternoon but that'll last for what, maybe a couple of days? She wants OUT, period and that is sad for the both of them, I hate "quitters" like 8-5-8's wife is . A divorce is not a way to "save" a "relationship." It's going to be painful and it will take you about a year (on average) to get over it. Maybe you'll get lucky and she'll beg for you to "take her back" but the chances of that are highly unlikely.

Funny - but I originally started my post with "It seems really odd to me that you're wife would want a divorce in order to save your relationship..." I don't understand it - I hope it does save your relationship - I just don't see how it will...

I gotta say - anyone who is encouraging 8-5-8 to smoke a cigar to celebrate has missed the pain that is clearly in his post. Enjoy the day, bro - I'm glad it's going your way right now - I'm glad you're happy - but the toughest part of this will be tomorrow - and the day after - and the day after....

If you're going to smoke a cigar - find the biggest damn cigar you can get your hands on - pour yourself a nice HUGE glass of Iced Tea - go out in the back yard and enjoy that smoke while you reduce the stress of what's going on right now. And I hope you find some peace during that time - you deserve it, bro...

[Drake]

i agree with CCat. i'm kind of going through the same thing. my girlfriend of 3 years that i live with has recently become very board of our life. i work about 10 hours a day + my lunch hour. i'm gone from 7-730 every weekday. she's a 19 y/o college student who's just starting to party a lot. and i did all my partying at a young age. i don't like to go out til 230 and get plastered every night any more, but she's just starting to. she won't admit that she's unhappy with me cuz she's so codependant. but she's never happy when she's around me. and she hardly is ever home when i'm there. i don't think its going to last much longer. i think we're both just trying to postpone the inevitable. sorry to hear about your situation. glad you're happy now. but i wouldn't expect the best. you can hope for it. but be very aware of the possibility of the worst

[kevin7]

I hope it works out for you bro,remember "make up" pussy is so sweet