Well allow me to retort...

Again thanks for your opinions guys, much appreciated.
And I don't know what's gonna happen, all I know is that we are happy at the moment, and I can't spite the journey for the destination. We are not religious people, so our marraige is more of a legal entity than anything. We have no children, so if we go through with the divorce and it doesn't work out, fine... I've made my plans otherwise (be prepared, it's the Boy Scout way). But I personally, knowing my wife as the person she is, I think that this is a step in a positive direction. We are making plans to go on vacation together (something we haven't talked about in a long time), and talking about our future (again, something that hasn't come up at all lately). If she can talk about our future together, than that is a good sign to me.

And initially it was me that mentioned getting divorced last week, as I couldn't continue living the way we were... I wanted out becuase there was nothing I could do to make her happy. And as I said, if we have to sacrifice a marraige thats less than 2 years old to save our 15-year relationship, then so be it.