Dude.....

I have been thru a divorce and have found the best woman ever the second time around. I am sorry to say she is playing you like a fiddle. You are getting a divorce but will still stay together.... what is the difference ? No more commitment between the two of you? Will she and you be able to see other people?

My first wife was my High School sweetheart, what a big f*ckin' mistake that was.....

Best advice I could give is to get the divorce, play it off like everything is alright between the two of you. After the divorce is final.....RUN LIKE HELL !!!!!!

Assuming that you have no children, cause you never mentioned them. This would be the best time to get away from her. I know she may love you and you love her but it does not sound like the two of you are "IN LOVE" and that is a big difference.

Like I tell everyone...... My first marriage was practice for the second one.

What ever you decide........ Good Luck !!!!!!!!!