Quote Originally Posted by CoventryCat86 View Post
Have you actually started divorce proceedings yet? If you have, then dating someone AFTER the filing is irrelevant.

I don't know what to tell you, I've seen far worse like a 20+ year marriage, two kids, a co-owned business, a large house and lots of assets with a husband who was cheating for two years, wife found out, he agreed to stop seeing her, turns out he didn't, then three months later he moved out, she didn't fall apart but she was hurt very badly, husband comes back four days later and so far everything is fine and I think it will work.

I've got other similar stories but I'll spare you the details.

This Travis guy has got to be completely out of the picture if anything is to "work out" so.....

I am going to file in about 5 minutes. Start the ball rolling. I will get the paperwork for her to sign off on Wednesday when we see each other to deal with the Volkswagen.

There is nothing left to work out, it's done, I am not changing my mind or backing down now. She had her chance to remove the problem and she spent 2 more nights with him and fucked him and then said to my face that she chose HIM not ME. From that point on I finally knew what I had to do, move on with my own life. I don't have to worry about having to have someone meet me 1/2 way right now b/c it's me, myself, and I.