Damn sorry to hear this Loudpipes!! It will get better though, from my experience:
1. came home one night, locks changed, clothes on the porch
2. had 37 cents in my pocket
3. went to the ATM.....empty
4. had to live with parents
5. got raped in the divorce
6. spent 16 years paying child support
7. met a GOOD woman
8. have been married to her for 15 years
9. she loves me
10. I love her

LIFE IS GOOD!! Even better because:
1. The EX has had 13 different guys in this time
2. Youngest daughter has a protection order against her and wants nothing to do with her
3. She is alone and lonely
4. she has gained 100 lbs since the divorce
5. She can't hold a job
6. I don't have to pay for it anymore.

Moral of this story.......Karma gives the best smack-down of all. Keep your head up and know that you made the best effort possible, and have held the high-ground through the whole deal. The pay-back she has coming will get there eventually, and you won't have to do a thing!!